problems

why is it easy for us to give advce to other,while we, when we are on the same situtation,we can't help ourself...
my conclusion to that is because when people asks for our advice, we just put ourself into the situation and do what we should do and what is rightful to do, while when we are the one whose on the actual situation, our mind gets cluttered and bothered.
my point is when we just put ourselves but not in actual situtation, our minds can function well, cause all we can think is how to create a solution, we think of what is rightful to do. but if were having a problem, things get deranged, our minds process not only the solution but we are also bothered of whatever the come out will be, how, when and where is the right timing of resolving it and of course we tend to be emotionally attached to the scenario, that's why we can't think properly.